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Sunday, August 9 @ 10:44 PM

Back From Malaysia.
06.08.09 Thu.
Went in to Malaysia. Ah Kwang Gorgor fetch us. His going-to-be wife came together with us too. Few hours of driving and finally reach. Didn't manage to look at grandpa. As they say,grandpa's face starts to rot le. Worms start to wiggle around. They say mostly because the organs inside his body already start to rot before he even die. Many of us including me believe grandpa is die of hunger. Had a quick dinner and change into blue shirt and long pant. Get my blue hat and wear my sock. Children of daughters will have a red cloth on their left arm. That our 'uniform' for grandchildren. For sons and daughters: White shirt, black long pants, white hat and sock. For girls' husbands: colours of the clothes will depend on which generation. Girls' husbands were given a extra cloth to put on their shoulder. I don't know what the meaning of that. Red clothes are given to daughters' children and husband because they are not his so called direct grandchildren. By the way, I am third generation. And start on 'work'. What happened during the ceremony is that we will need to bow, kneel and sit down. We also need to hold on the the incense. Everyone one while sons and daughters three. This continue till quick late. Have supper and then sleep. For that night, is a very terrible night. We tried 4 person sleeping on a 2or3 size bed. YiHong, YiSiong, Brother and me. Just nice, someone places a pile of underwear on the bed. They all pushed the underwear to my side. Darm it !!! Hahas. We didn't change out from the 'uniform'. At the end, I went upstairs and slept with Mum.
07.08.09 Fri & 08.08.09 Sat.
Wake up. Had breakfast. Then the four of us take over the burning of “Jingzi”. We burned that for like 4hours while waiting for the “Sangong” to come. Then we start our “ceremony” again till late night. After that we bathed and changed into our normal day shirts. Quite boring in the day. As we cannot on the television and no playing of cards. -_- Yi Zhi, ZhiKang, Zhien they reached on fri. Dad came together with them. Almost everyone of the family came on Friday. Now we tried to sleep on the same bed with 7 ppl. This 7 ppl included YiZhi, YiSiong, YiHong, ZhiKang, ZhiEn, Brother and me. Can you imagine how tight and how squeeze are we? I went up on alone on Fri.But on sat, ZhiKang, Yisiong, YiHong, Brother and I went upstair to sleep.Because YiZhi and Zhien, they took up the whole bed !!
On sat, most of us cry. Cry real badly. I cry too. Not able to have a last look. Although I don't day to see. But actually no matter wad, I decided to take a look. But who know, grandfather's coffin had closed. Sent him off. Went to the graveyard. Everyone need to throw stones on his coffin. And tell him to come back to the lobby and watch over us. Went back home. Socks are given back. Hats are given back except girls' husbands. Watch our face and hands with some water(with flowers) and comb our hair with that water. Meant to watch away the “dirty” things. Some procedure to follow after we come home.
09.08.09 Sun.
Came home. AhKwang gorgor fetch us again. Need to go back one week later which is next sun. Wear back the same clothes. I must go back ! I want !!! Sleep early. Headache. I stomach ache everyday for the past 3 days. Because we have our dinner outside of the house where the flies are like flying and landing on your foods. Good Night.

P.s I will feel better? Were I?

SsinyiI.